Why Perfect, Beautiful, Intelligent Women Fail for Love? Here is Why!

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Hi, My Beautiful people in my community! This week went by so fast for me, I feel blessing enough for everything I have around me. I’ve been speaking with beautiful ladies in my community left and right lately regarding the love relationship that frustrates them. I know how exactly they feel and how badly they want in their way because they are so in love. I know that. Because I’d been there. I know how they are going through. This is why I love to talk to you guys to teach you how the love relationship works!

As I talk to them, I see all of the ladies look beautiful and they are extremely intelligent. I can tell that they have their own desire and have confidence in what they do and at the same time, they are also very caring. How could these perfect, beautiful, successful, and intelligent ladies are suffering for a relationship?! It’s our world wonder right!? What’re missing to those perfect strong women?! See, ladies, this is where your self-love practice takes the important role…

If you say yes it’s me, I know the mistakes you have been making and that you are blind in LOVE! I know how much you love your man. I know you want the best in the relationship and you do anything to make the relationship successful. You spend more energy and time and even money on your man, and this desperate circulation eventually begins to leak down the drain like there is a hole in a relationship. And you tell me how much you have done for him and that now you feel miserable. Watch out ladies, when you are in love, you don’t see what’s good and bad for you. You are obsessed and ignoring your very own needs and feelings inside you.

For example, one of my clients had met a guy that so cute and fun. He seemed very responsible and talk to her about marriage. She thought she found a perfect man that is matching everything to a man of her dream. But after a few months of dating, his attitude quickly fade off, he became distant and lost interest in her. She began to work hard trying to make him hers. She pays for their date, trip, vacation, birthday, and everything they do together. And she comes to me and tells me that she understands that he is struggling for his work…

See, ladies, I know you feel that helping him keeping him, but he is still a man, and he always wants to impress as a man! You are taking the driver seat and begin to drive him where you want to go..that’s not exciting for a man! Men never like to be controlled nor to belittle. If HE ever asks you for money or nags about his work, he is not treating you like a woman but maybe a mother or a manfriend. Men would never show a woman weakness in that area in finance when especially you both are single status in the relationship. If he ever says that to you, you should take it as he is not able to take care of you. Would you still want to see him as a potential man to happily marry him in the future if that’s what you want?

Long years ago before I practice self-love, I was one of you. When my first child was born and I began working on a job to feed my baby, my partner at the time became very aggressive and abusive to me. During two years of struggles, I became a survivor of domestic violence. After all, I quickly escaped to Hollywood California to protect my child away from any harm. I began my own Talent agency to serve for the needs of others and to support myself and my child, and I felt awful for my boyfriend at the time for having a baby that’s not his. So I tried and work hard to make it up for him in the relationship. Therefore I attracted a wrong type of guy who won’t serve as a man enough or who take an advantage of my weakness.

It took many years for me to find that everything creates from how much you know and having a close relationship within yourself. You must see yourself and love yourself unconditionally for any parts that you feel insecure about.

As I was doing so, everything else fell into the places without any hardship. A great kind man began rescuing me to teach me about how man is for women. My lovely man is a good example. He is always a king and prince charming to me. He is kind, funny, cute, sexy, dependable, a big supporter to worry about things happening around me, leader, extremely intelligent, and most of all, he is safe. You want a man that you can respect and not something to complain about. You want a man that you can always agree with no matter what he does or says.

So when my clients begin to complain about their man, I will be wondering and say “are you sure you love him when you don’t like something about him and you try to change him who he is not?” I am not saying here that you must love the whole baggage that comes with him. If you can’t accept him who he is, what he needs, and what he loves in his own way, you have no way of giving him a respect that he needs. This is where a basic of love relationship lay and you want it solid as much as you can.

When you face the problem, this is where I coach around to support the ladies to be in a center of own heart to have self-awareness of themselves. This does not mean that you are going to be selfish and just focus on your own world. You want to pay attention to your very own feelings in an authentic way what you truly need to connect to the universe…

I hope you understand some of the important concepts of love. This is why I always encourage my clients to work on self-love practice at the beginning of my love improvement program, and it always works well with them! I want you to know more about it and I want you to find the true love of your life. Trust me, when he pops up in your life, you will notice him in no time that he is the one!

If you have any questions, feel free to send me a message, make a comment, and place a session with me! I am here to help you improve your love life!

Love Coach Riyo 🚀 with LOVE

How to Effectively Communicate with Great High Quality Man

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Beautiful ladies in my community…I have been blessing enough to keep up with my work lately, being busy with preparing for serving a broadcasting request as well as writing and dealing with primary business deals to others. Even though I get extremely busy, talking with my community is my primary thing to do for me because it is my happiness that some of my clients or viewers are having gradually getting succeeded for what they want! So, please listen and keep coming back to learn the methods for getting happier life! Today, I love to talk about how to communicate with your man you love as I promised last week!

Effective communication in love relationship is something you want to pay attention to to keep your love relationship happy. Because this is where most people make mistake and coming to me. If you want to get attention to the great high-quality men to commit with you, you got to learn this! So that you can connect with your man with a deeper level of understanding because men and women psychology are different. So make sure to not talk or chat to your man like same way you do with one of your girlfriends or just friends!

Of course, you don’t have to stress about it appsolutely because you are on the process of self-love at all time, remember? And make sure to know that self-love is not your own selfish world ladies! If you have not learned my basic self-love practice, and you wonder why you consistently keep hurting yourself in the relationships, you should read my previous blogs and learn about it because those will be extremely important for anything you do to get a great love relationship in your life. Because you have to practice deep understanding within yourself before you think or bring others into your life.

Once you have settled with who you truly are, let’s think of having a great deeper relationship with a man you LOVE for your life. Any men’s psychologies would work as same no matter how you tried, so you don’t want to keep making same mistakes and expect that some men would make different. So you have to admit the fact that you should learn to change your situation to effectively communicate with your man because no other education provides this. You are the smart women that are here to learn this.

If you think about when you are talking to your girlfriends, you realize that the conversation goes very quickly and naturally left and right freely and there is no misunderstanding in between two of you. This is normal for women and this is how we release stress to have emotional connections by communicating. But men don’t work as women do. Men need time to digest and think through before responding because they communicate as what’s necessary at the time. They don’t think that they need to communicate if there is nothing happening. Because men are ACTION TAKER and love to lead, and they are not communicator as women are.

So when you are the one is a chaser and tending to always contact him, just wait patiently and give him space to respond, and not disrupt or assume or overthink while you are waiting till he responds you back so that he has enough time to think about it as well as to give him the sense of respect.

Most of the time, it’s important for men to talk and for women to listen because when men allow you for emotional connection, he talks about him to tell many signs of his desires and needs. And when he does, you want to respect what he says and believe him. You don’t want to overthink or try to correct him. Because he wants to be who he is and he will discuss with you when he wants you in the picture. So ask more about what he loves and feels when you are with him.

No matter what he said, he wants you to trust him and believe in him. This attitude shows how much respect you have for him. Don’t put him down or deny what he is telling you. You accept as how he is and not to fight or change or judge or downplay on him for what he says. Because if you don’t have respect for him, he will go to someone who can listen and respect for his emotional connection.

When you are with your man on daily bases, most of the women begins to smothering men instead of nurturing him. This means to tell a man what to do or care like he is one of your children. Men love to do in his own way and he doesn’t want another mother other than his own! He is a grown man and doesn’t want to be treated like a little boy. So if something concerns you, ASK HIM how he feels and not to tell him, and even if you don’t agree with him, let him be!

Lastly, if you want something with him, everything needs to be obvious to him. Men don’t read women mind ladies! You can not expect him to figure what you want and believe that he picks up on something that you haven’t asked directly. Your girlfriends may but not with him. So don’t be afraid to tell your man what you exactly want from him because men simply want to make his woman happy. If you told what you want, and he is not able to feed you the way you want, don’t nag or repeat the same thing. Remember, if you are practicing self-love, you will know what to do at this point to get what you want.

There are much more to talk about this topic, but as always, I’m going too long on this. If you have any questions or comments, feel free to send me messages, make comments, and or place a session with me! I know you deserve the best love relationship you always desire and you want men that love you more as much as you do. Trust me on this one: a good loving relationship begins with you from how much you love and know yourself within…I wish you all have a happy healthy relationship and I am here for you!

Love Coach Riyo 🦒 with LOVE

Your Heart Can Grow Even If You are Raised in Broken Family – Personal Story

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My beautiful people in my community…I feel so blessed lately about how important things in my life are coming toward me and brightening me up! This is why I want you to believe yourself and do your self-love practice. When you find your own happiness and be true to yourself, you can open your heart to receive abundance of your life to learn that nothing will break you or make you unhappy in your life.

You can be at present moment and able to take beyond of all rather than facing your problems. When you find peace within you, you can accept to face your true self and feelings and you don’t have to fight or struggle for who you are and what you have or you don’t have.

If you are in the circumstance of always having problems in your life, you believe that it’s normal for you to have problems and that that’s what you deserve. Then when you are not experiencing any problems, you feel uncomfortable therefore you attract and look for more problems. If you ever experienced this cycle and wondering why you are always struggling not getting what you want for your life, try to learn and focus on yourself within and search for the true happiness of your life.

The self-defining process does not need anyone else to count on. It’s the process within your mind and soul and body, how you remembering your childhood, and how you can find and cherish your inner-child yourself. I know you can cure and free yourself from the problems you may have because I am a good example of you. Here is a little bit about my personal story.

When I think of myself and why I love to write and teach everyone and my clients about self-love is that I was one of the children who was raised by busy parents who weren’t paying attention to own children. I was a little child who grew up believingthat my parents aren’t the real parents because they never tried to hear what I wish.

So I was raised by my grandmother who was from the southern island. My grandmother was a child with 9 siblings and she always told me how she struggled with her life in her family. I’d heard and seen the problems in dysfunction family that runs generation to the generation, and I wanted to stop that cycle of the broken house to hurt the feeling of innocent children like I had experienced.

I remember when my father often took me to his work where he treats people with Asthma in health. I was hanging around with children with Asthma symptoms and felt that they are exactly like me when they were out of breath and not able to say things. And I found deep sympathy for children who weren’t treated pleasantly by parents due to a broken family structure that causes mental and physical health issues. I was hurt as a little child how lonely it was to grow up seeing my mother was unhappy in the family. And I felt deeply and knowing how difficult it is for a child without receiving the love and attention they need as a child.

From how I raised, my circumstances in difficulty being in love relationship consisted until I fail from the love I wanted with my ex. What I found was that years of self-love study was not all to have a healthy love relationship unless I learn about the men psychology. I admitted the fact that I need to learn to change the circumstances. I studied and researched tons of books to learn about methods of forming a healthy relationship and marriage.

So this is why I became a love and health coach to coach people around the area where they get stuck. What’s more important is to first connect with your inner-child self so that you can recover, know, learn, about your true self. And then I teach beyond to succeed in your love relationship and mental and physical health in my programs.

As I coach, I realized many people are having the same problems as I was. So when I have spoken in the crowd of people or the articles I wrote about relationship and health, they relate to me and are willing to listen to my stories and asked me to tell them more about it.

This is why I want you to know that you can grow by yourself even you are raised in a broken family. Your experiences are valued for you to grow from the point of your life no matter if it’s good or bad experiences. You just need to accept the fact that you need help and make sure to get help for it so you can learn to grow.

Because you all are lovable, sensitive, and innocent child inside of you. So stop believing that you are unworthy or shame. You are worthy, valued, and gifted from the universe. And you all have a mission to do something and someone to love and be loved for life!

So this time around, learn to believe yourself and people you love. If you are facing any difficulty in your life, feel free to talk to me, message me, make comments, and place a session with me! I am here to help you to heal and to have a happier and healthier life!

Health Coach Riyo 🎺 with LOVE

How to Increase Trust and Intimacy to Keep Your Love of Your Life

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Hey, My Beautiful people in my community! I’ve been talking with lots of ladies recently about their problems in their relationship and that I see many of you are all up in the head going forward than men do…I know exactly why you feel the way you do. You want your emotional connection and fulfillment to be sure that your man is listening to you and there for you at all time. You text him and be up under him all day long every day smothering and depending on him to lead the relationship the way you want. Then you over think and try to analyze everything he said and does when he is not contacting you or away from you. I see many of my clients are worrying and focusing on relationship rather than being center of loving self to make yourself happy and prioritize your emotional connection within yourself.

Meantime, men are totally focusing on what he needs to get done (working or hanging with men friends) and that he believes you are happy with your self and expecting him back to you while he is away from you. This is where I always teach my clients to be centered and focus on self because men need enough space to make a move in a relationship. Your man can take enough breath and settle with his thoughts as you are being receptive and sit back and relax instead of going up in the head over men. Every time when you complain to him about why he is not paying attention to you, he will lose his confidence in you as a woman who he can trust to safely come back to. He needs soft and receptive energy to be landed. And he wants you to stay as a happy completed person who he can always trust without losing his own space, time, needs, and freedom.

So, let me guide you more on this. When you are up in the head thinking and leading the relationship, you are using muscling energy. Just as I always say, you got to leave your muscling energy to the work you do and not to your men and love relationship! Nature made men and women for the reason. Women are to be receptive and men to be the force in a relationship. This does not mean that you have to hold or wait or escape from the relationship. This means to have healthy loving and boundary in the relationship and tell him the way it is to express your true feeling and not to bring out the anger or nag. When you express your boundary and he is not able to follow through and keep disappointing you, you might have to to find a matching man that is fit with your own needs.

Most of the time, men clients tell me that they don’t understand why women are complaining. They have never meant at all to leave her or forget about her. He has his own separate life and that he expects her to well handle her own life as well. So if you complain, you actually push him away further. It’s all about trust and intimacy (in-to-me-I-see) in the relationship. If there are, he is trying his best to make it up to you to make you happy the way you want. Don’t think so negative or focusing on him and the relationship and instead prioritize your own happiness just as your man wishes you to be! So, believe him and trust him to make it up to you because he will if you give him a chance.

Trust me, LOVE will not go anywhere when you believe that you are lovable and that you give total 100% love to yourself. When he fell in love with you at the very beginning of the relationship, he had committed to you and told you that he cares and needs you in the relationship, so believe him! There is no way to break that feeling in him no matter if you break up with him once or twice or more. You weren’t just a friend, you are his love. You are the source of his emotional connection and support and inspiration he needs (when you give him a chance to). He will never forget you but instead, when the time he is away from you, he is working on being toward you as a completed happy man. He is thinking of you and missing you when you are not up in his head all over around him. So trust him in that process of love and love yourself!

I’ve seen many success stories of couples made long-term LOVE relationship and marriage. If you have to work hard and chase your man and be up under him everywhere, this is not that type of the relationship you can keep for a long-term love relationship. You may have his attention for a short period of the time, but it does not make it to the long-term marriage. So to avoid the rebounding relationship, you search for the people who have the similar situation and experiences where both can understand. For example of movie actors and actresses: you see how the powerful couples are working and making money together and falling in love together. And they tend to have the matching rolls and looks that attract each other and many of other. This way, you don’t have to be frightening just to make a relationship work. The relationship should flow easily to get what both want in their life.

So let your natural energy flows in the way you are gifted from the universe and lets him be free and lead the way he wishes. If you are able to trust his process and accept the way it is in the relationship, look into yourself (intimacy) and center your own feeling in the relationship and let the man universe gifted you guides you the way of love. And don’t fight! Next week, I would love to talk about how to effectively communicate with men you love. My busy week begins and I wrote too long on this blog because I love to talk to you guys. If you have any questions, or currently you are having a difficult time with your relationship, send me messages, make a comment, and place a session with me!

To those who are a father, Happy Father’s Day!

Love Coach Riyo 🦕 with LOVE

How to Get What You Want for Your Life Effortlessly – (Including Painless Ab Slimming Tips)

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My beautiful people in my community…I was talking to one of my clients last night and I felt so amazing with the story of new transformation and success! The great part of the self-love and connecting the energy from the universe tremendously gives you your higher power to get happiness of your life. The amazing thing comes to you in the way is happened very suddenly and with an unbelievable story in nature. When the missing part of your matching puzzle shows up in your life, it completes your life to make the way you always wanted without you thinking or fighting of it. You don’t have to act up or try hard to make it happen. Those amazing thing comes to you naturally when you are loving yourself and make it happen for you on its own.

So, learn to be in that flow of the universe and believe and trust yourself the way it is! I can always relax and enjoy any moments of time, work, joy, learning, listening, speaking, fun, laughing, sharing, and caring that I do for everyone. I have been totally receptive and thankful for everything comes to me as it’s given. I am calm and natural, feeling happy just accepting being who I am. This is why I love to teach my community about how you can be authentic and living at the present moments to get what you want! Just release your energy you receive to define and do what you love!

In our normal life, it’s natural for people to get hurt, and they stay away and escape from it because they don’t want to get hurt again. It’s common sense. However, you don’t want to close off your heart to escape from your own issues because if you do it’s actually blocking your new potentials that coming in the way. Therefore you stuck with problems. When you are facing the problems, the root of that problems is yourself. If you forget to face it and blaming and relying on others, you will never able to change the circumstances. This is why it’s important to learn about yourself and have meditation to focus on YOU and love YOU instead of relying on others as your emotional and physical getaway.

For example, it’s like you are working out having struggles to shape your body as you want. Nobody can work your body for you. You have to work on your own. If you can not, you ask for service to learn to work on your own. And it’s not so difficult to do that once you learn to take it easy to care of self. So let me talk about the painless ab exercise I promised to talk about last week as an example! It’s very simple movement and totally natural and requiring minimal efforts and time to provide burning fat on your ab.

1. Stand straight, place one leg forward, another leg back
2. strain your buttocks and keep your body weight to the back leg
3. squeeze your stomach tighter as you can
4. inhale slowly for 5 seconds from your nose while raising your arms above the head
5. exhale for 10 seconds you strain your body muscles

Do this easy exercise every morning for 15 times switching one leg and another. You don’t feel any pain or struggle. You know me, everyone, I always tell you that workout is not to be struggling with. It’s a little daily effort and performance to take care of your present needs. You don’t need an excessive amount of tough workout to the edge to hurt yourself. I promise if you do this exercise everyday and pays attention to control your breathing and stomach muscles on the all-day everyday bases, you will get a natural tight ab as you always wanted!

So no more struggling workout and keeping yourself calm to try mediation and mindful activities a part of your workout. (If you need diet or meal plan, you can check my previous posts.) If you have any difficulty about your mental and physical health, and you would like the unbelievable amazing things to happen to you effortlessly, message me, leave your comment, or place a session with me! I am surely here for you to get what you want in your life!

Health Coach Riyo 🍎 with LOVE

How to Identify Your Great Potential Partner for Your Love Life – Tips and Signs

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Beautiful people in my community…I am still taking my vacation and I am enjoying people’s company! Over the weekend, I went out and watched few movies outdoor by the River and Beach. Also, Puerto Rican Parade was running with horses in my blocks yesterday. So, busy weekend like this, I feel to just put my feet up and relax tonight…I really wish everyone enjoyed this weekend too. People in the city do everything outdoors in the summertime such as watching movies, BBQing, doing Yoga, Workout, and even sleeping! It’s time for you to totally be open and let your energy go in and out naturally. Let your energy releases so that you can allow yourself in the summer flow.

Today, I will love to talk about how you can identify a great potential partner for your love life and if your guy is good for you. Because I’ve seen many of my clients are so focused on love. I understand that and I want you to be happy in love. And I know how some relationship turns out to be toxic mentally and physically to withdraw your energy and everything you have, so I want you to learn and be aware of the signs of an unhealthy relationship. So that you can let go and find a right person for you. I promise that when you find that person, you will notice how everything workout naturally and easy for both of you. You don’t have to fight, rush, or worry about your current situation now, and let your awareness handle it. This is the area many of you get frustrated because most of you have heartbroken before and you don’t allow yourself to make things easy and available. So I am here to help.

For example, one of my clients, she thought she found a perfect guy for her. He is cute and fun and very kind to her every time she meets him. However, his time for her is always restricted and she never knows what the future hold will be with him. She wants to get more attention from him. Therefore she begins to try harder and harder in the relationship. In the beginning, she simply wanted to find a man of her life, but now she is investing more time and energy and everything she has onto something he desires that she is not truly interested in. But she acts like she is with it because she is so obsessed with being with him. All she knows is to give all herself up to separate from her true desires just to be with him. Ladies! If this is you, you got to keep yourself up and together with YOURSELF!

Here is the problem. If you are in love with someone nothing but chemistry, you might be caught up with a difficult love relationship in an unconscious level, and once you stuck in that relationship, it might gonna take years to break up to get hurt, and you need another years to heal from heartbroken or otherwise, you forever keep having rebound relationships to hurt yourself and another. But don’t worry, you are not alone for this. If you want to stop the bad rebound relationships cycle, you got to learn to be aware of yourself to pay attention to your true feelings and hold for what you are and desire.

Believe me, if he is the right guy for you, he will give himself to make everything right for you without making you worry about any of your needs or wants.

The few tips and signs of the healthy and unhealthy love relationship are below. For someone, maybe it is difficult to believe, but if you experience the negative signs of those, you should move on to someone who makes you complete your life and not a part of your life.

She can be her own light without depending on men for her own happiness. As being a relationship with him, her life is going better and settled automatically. For instance, if she is tied up with full of things to do due to the relationship and that suffers her lifestyle, she is lacking her own needs and taking and investing too much on a relationship. In that case, she is not able to truly be happy or make a relationship happy, because she needs enough space and time for herself to be so.

Her life is settled and relaxed and she can enjoy things she wants outside of a relationship. She is calm and has no up and down emotional lifestyle. If she is consistently complaining or contacting him to smother him and worry about what he is doing, it cannot be a healthy relationship. In the healthy love relationship, she doesn’t have to worry about him if he calls her or when to text her. She totally trusts him for everything he does and he will be the one to worry about her.

She knows her self-value and worth and not afraid to tell her true desires of a love relationship. If she is acting like she is enjoying everything with him when she truly is not, it’s not a healthy relationship. For instance, she has her own responsibility or other appointments or other desires, but if he calls or asks for something, she does everything to make it up to his as a priority instead of her own. In the healthy relationship, she cannot lose herself to give out her own values and worth.

If you experience any of those signs and the relationship affects your lifestyle as going down the hills, you should be aware that it’s not for you. If any of those men make you feel like it is your obligation to excuse yourself and needs, he is not one for you. If you are being needy and desperate for his love and you have difficulty keeping yourself up, he is not for you. I know you think you love him and that you feel he is the one because he makes you feel good when he is with you, but your feelings and emotion don’t lie and this is the reason you cannot be totally comfortable in the relationship. So learn to be honest with yourself instead of frightening because if he is the one, none of the frustration will be in the pictures.

Any questions or concerns, feel free to message me, make a comment, or place a session with me! I am here to make your love life successful!

Love Coach Riyo 🍍 with LOVE

To be Called Beautiful with Self-LOVE – Meditation and Relaxation

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It’s June everyone! I am enjoying moments of vacation time relaxing in my home NYC. We have everything here from the world and we can have quality fun every day if you know where to go what to do in the city… I was just hiking in the park today in fitness clothing with music and hat on. When you hike through Central Park, you can take Vitamin D just by being under the sun, get to play with little animals, feel cool under the shadow of trees, and talk to any strangers who enjoying the nature just as you do. I am loving this beautiful weather and feeling the happiness of beautiful summertime!

Now I am thinking. When I was 20 years younger from now, I didn’t know how to be a whole happy person. I moved from another side of the earth and crossed the states to search for my life of happiness. I thought someone or something can make me a whole happier person. But that search and confusion weren’t ever turned a love to begin with, because I was looking for the getaway and something else to make me happy to take care of me. I never had any problems finding someone to do so, but truth is that nobody can make me a happy person unless I am happy with myself. After the years of struggles, I began working on Self-LOVE to make me happy.

When you truly found happiness with who you are and how healthy you are from the inside (mentally) and out (physically), people around you see your smile, and they are all attracted to you and say “you are beautiful!” This will be your daily word to hear everywhere you go from everyone if you follow my energy practice to improve your life. Yes, you can feel and control your own energy and receive the vibration from the universe! (See previous blogs.) Your heart is whole and round 100% open to everything to get what you want for your life. And when you get this feeling of having Self-LOVE, you finally realize, you found true LOVE within yourself and you are ready to LOVE someone to be happy.

I know you want to find the happiness of your life. I know you want to find someone to share your love forever. And I am here to help you find that happiness and love. If you want that happiness and love, you got to find it within you.

As I practice for years of Self-LOVE, I teach meditation to run your energy from nature and universe in my Health Improvement Program. When something does not go the way you want, the heart is still full of love by calming your emotion. I found a spell of tears for my past struggles but there is no destruction in mind by meditating. This is the time I can let things go to protect my heart to keep my happiness within. Then I praise myself and feel how grateful I am to be a happy woman.

Meditation and relaxation are very important for Self-LOVE. You don’t have to chase other people and depending on them for love. Becuase you can’t fill love from someone else. You have to love yourself no matter if you are loved or not. It begins with how much you love yourself and be happy who you are. When you realize it and work on your self-love beside aim love at someone else to try to receive love from outsourcing, you can become much better and happier person. With my Health Improvement Program, I promise that you find love and happiness for your life!

So I am writing as I am relaxing. Have fun for this summer everyone! I may talk about how to slim your ab without pain next week. If you have any problem with your current health and life, feel free to message me, make a comment, or place a session with me! I am here to make your life beautiful.

Health Coach Riyo 🌳 with LOVE

How to Make Online Profile to Find A Man of Your Dream – Tips and Guides

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My beautiful ladies in my community… today, I love to talk about how to make dating online profile to attract the right men you want. I know how it’s tough and complicated for many people to find one that really matches with you and your lifestyle and not to stuck with someone in a merry-go-round cycle. So, I want you to show yourself properly on your online profiles in the digital world because now and days people search people through online. Psychologically, people will stick with the impression from online profile instead of actually meeting in person. So make sure that you are telling how you want them to know about you in an authentic way.

Before I go into the detail, over this weekend, you may be spent your time with your boyfriend, or alone, or with your family, or at work, or studying, or maybe you went out with your girlfriends for fun. In either case, I wish that you had a quality time for yourself and that you are happy with yourself.

Because the first thing I want you to be sure is that you are happy with yourself who you are right now more than 100%! Even though your life is maybe not perfect, are you accepting the things and be loving and easy to yourself? Are you possessing love, happiness, peace within yourself? Once you define your true SELF-LOVE, the man of your true love comes you, I promise. Otherwise, if you are always being unhappy, nagging, and or complaining, you can’t make anybody happy nor expect anyone to provide it for you for the long-term. Remember, your happiness is your responsibility. Your own happiness is the key to the long-term relationship. So at least you know that, let’s talk about how to make a dating profile to attract right people for you! Here are the tips.

Men LOVE happy women, ladies! Any county you go, any people you see, no matter you speak their language or not, a SMILE is the happy verbal communication. When your profile has a high value and seems full of happiness for who you really are authentically, it attracts only high valued authentic men. It is important to present who you are in real life and show happy photos of yourself with a beautiful smile! Remember, no one caring about your insecurity so don’t hesitate. The smile shows how much you IDENTIFY, KNOW, and LOVE YOURSELF. The point here is to know yourself and be an authentic and open heart.

Post more than 5 pictures to show who you are and your interests. For instance, show your hobbies such as in the gym working out, cooking, eating out, hiking, kayaking, boating, bowling, fishing, dancing, and taking trips to the places. Don’t be a boring person with a lot of same selfies. And describe what you love to do and what you want to try, so then the matching men who have same interests will approach you to ask you out. The best way is to state specifically so that he knows what you love and that he will know how he can lead you to make you happy.

The memo here is that if you are showing your sexy photographs, that’s what you are presenting for and that’s what you are asking for. So if you have a beautiful body that you want to show off, fine! Go right ahead, but you must know what you are presenting and clarify your mind about it. Also, many men don’t read your profile and just talk to you by looking at your photos, so I recommend to not take everything personally.

State and describe anything specifically what you want and won’t accept. For instance, if you are enjoying your freedom of simple single lifestyle and want to find someone who is special for you to share that with you, state it. For example, if you’ve never been married, no kids, and happy where you are at, state that you want someone with the same condition fairly. This tells your value and worth which shows your beautiful boundary, so do not hesitate to say what you want and what you don’t accept. If you state clearly enough, you avoid lots of hassle and time talking or interrupted by men that basically you do not match.

For example, this week just passed by, I bought a mountain bike I LOVE. (I grew up riding it and haven’t ridden it for over 21 years now…) This originally began with the conversation at my very first date with my loving man. We kept at conversation since, and we never took action for it. He recently asked me if I still like to ride and decided to purchase his own, and he reminded me to get it as well. Now I AM in LOVE with my bike. See, this kind of a sensitive and strong man you all need everyone!!! He remembers any little things you say and leads you to action when you totally forgot. He makes you smile and feel to show off how happy you are. For the reason, I really appreciate him for all he does from my heart. People may notice me as very fast but I am actually very slow in relationship and marriage until I met this man, so ladies, make sure to choose a man that cares for you and makes you feel happy ever in your life!

So back to what I was talking about how important for you to state your boundary, I’ve seen many successful couples who have the same type of past love experiences such as marriage and love life. For example, if you had long-term marriage and have kids, and a man you are dating has same situation, he understands you very well with equivalent level and needs. This way, two can help each other for a better relationship. Everything is a balance in the relationship. So don’t hesitate to state what you desire for your matching love.

So I tell you, a right man for you knows how to make you happy, complete, and open in front of everyone. If something does not serve your love requirements in a relationship, you should move on earliest as you notice.

If you follow these tips, I guarantee you find your perfect match in no time! If you express in the way authentically who you really are, what you accept, you have right attention from right men. So please don’t limit yourself and express what you deserve. If you need more dating tips and or you are currently frustrating with your love life, feel free to send me a message, make a comment, or place a session with me! I am here to help you with your happy love life.

Love Coach Riyo 💜 with LOVE

How to Eat Fruits and Vegetables Healthy – Tips to Remove Pesticides

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Eating healthy must be important for my community because I know you are here for your healthy lifestyle. You may be purchasing organic food to concern for your health. However, most food in our modern society has pesticides even with organic fruits and vegetables (except bananas, pineapples, avocados, etc. that have skin to peel off). So I bring to your attention that how important it is to know how to wash natural products to remove the pesticides before you eat. Do you know why it’s important? Here is why.

Pesticides are typically used by farms to control pests and disease-carriers such as mice, ticks, rats as well as insects that eat fruits and vegetables before harvest. (Read EPA about Pesticides uses) What they do is to spray pesticides on to the fruits and vegetables so that products have no holes, bugs, and diseases.

However, when you are exposed to pesticides by eating those fruits and vegetables, there is a high risk of cancer, diabetes, neurodegenerative diseases, birth defects, asthma, and etc. The researchers reported that these chronic diseases were evidenced from agricultural workers who are exposed to pesticides. The average lifespan of the workers who have exposed pesticides does not reach 50. This tells how serious and dangerous pesticides are to our health.

What about organic fruits and vegetables that have pesticides? Because they have to keep the products in good conditions with no bugs and diseases, even with organic products are sprayed pesticides to grow. The difference is that organic ones are used much safer pesticides than non-organic products. Since every product has pesticides and is not visible, I want you to learn how to properly wash off the pesticides.

I am sure we all rinsing off with cold water. But based on the researchers, rinsing with water is not enough to remove the pesticides. Here are the best 3 tips how to wash off pesticides.

1. 10% of Salty water (soaked for more than 10 mins, easiest and cost less but it will change the texture and taste of the food)
2. Vinegar (effective as salty water but it is expensive and it will change the favor of food)
3. Baking soda (one ounce of baking soda with 100 ounces of water and soaked for 10 mins and more to completely remove the pesticides)

The Baking soda was most effective and efficient. So I recommend to buy organic, wash with either those 3 methods, to eat. If the skin is peelable (such as apples, lemons, tomatoes, etc.), I recommend peeling the skin for eating rather than wash it. But if it’s not peelable like berries and spinach, you can use those tips to wash off pesticides to keep your healthy lifestyle. (These are the reasons why I love growing herbs at home!) I hope it helped you for healthy eating. If you have any questions, feel free to message me, make comments, or place a session with me!

Health Coach Riyo 🍎 in JOY

How to Identify Your Soulmate and Keep Your Love Life Last Forever

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Happy Memorial Day Everyone! Last week, I was talking about the importance of making time and creating your love life. So this week, I would like you to learn how to keep your love life forever. Because I want you to realize that your soulmate exists and he is there waiting for you to give you smile! What you need is to be conscious of yourself and notice him. When you are being authentic and being present, that’s the time he finds you and comes close you. (check my previous blogs)

Many of you thinking that marriage is not easy. Some of you are emotionally unavailable and you may don’t even notice that you are. Then you subconsciously chose same emotionally unavailable men who are difficult for a relationship just to avoid marriage or serious relationship. Maybe your love relationships weren’t successful in the past or people around you are having a difficulty with their marriage. If this is you, you need to change your belief. You may be trying to avoid getting hurt again but you are actually doing backward. So this is the time for you to learn and be conscious about yourself to get your forever love life! Don’t worry, I teach you how to identify that person in my love improvement program!

When you look at a best love relationship, two of you are able to bring best out by being partnered. The best couple does not need other people’s ideas or validations to be the best. The two can create a beautiful harmony naturally without trying too hard. For instance, his life mission such as work is set up comfortably and his manhood is going well by being with her. She is being her best by owning her own happiness and she can continuously be so by being with him. They can be the best version of who potentially be. Their relationship is consistent and both are on the same page of life.

This type of win-win relationship is healthy for anyone around. In a healthy relationship, there are no pieces of a puzzle that are unsolvable. They can support each other to fulfill their needs and wants. Thier life can be easier and uplifted without any difficulty. Most of the successfully married couples I’ve seen have a similar lifestyle and having the same type of past relationships, and they are balanced and understanding each other.

When it comes to the interests, it is not necessary to have same interests because two can learn from each other. For example, I became a fitness trainer because my loving man taught me how to use my ab slide. I used to love doing a workout when I was young but I forgot to enjoy those things. So he helped me to bring me out to fulfill my life. Exchange of that, I can always encourage him for his mission (such as his successful career) and what he loves to do (such as traveling) to set him be free. Some caring like that help to uplift the life in a relationship.

Many of the problems I’ve seen in dating are choosing the wrong men. Some are obsessed and some are believing that that’s what you deserve to be limited in love life. Maybe you are insecure or you don’t believe it when good men show up for your life. You have to know that you deserve a good man who loves you. So ask yourself when you meet your men if he is the right one for you. A list is below.

Does your friends and family like him? Or do they question him with second thoughts?
Do you feel good about yourself? Or do you worry that if you are doing okay with him?
Can you be an honest and authentic self to him? Or are you hiding your emotion and true feeling to him?
Do you love yourself when you are with him? Or are you worrying something else or feeling that if you are not enough?

If you want a forever love life with your soulmate, those questions should be answered yes for the positive ones. If you feel guilty, lied to, or feeling bad for any negativity in the relationship, that’s the indication that you have to think if you are with right one. I teach more in my love improvement program what you can exactly do for your love life. I love to talk about it to guide you how you can exactly find one and keep the right one forever. If you have any difficulty or questions, feel free to message me, make a comment, or join my love improvement program! I am here to support your love life.

Love Coach Riyo 🌸 with LOVE